My Indie Web Pet Peeves + “Manifesto”

Or smallweb… Or oldweb… Or web revival… Or whatever you want to call it. I probably shouldn’t be using the term Indie Web anyway, since it’s a well-established demographic of websites that aren’t necessarily condoning practices I want to talk about.

According to their official website, the Indie Web is a community of independent and personal websites based on the principles of owning your domain, using it as your primary online identity, and owning your content. Notice that deplatforming is a core value for them: the concept of an “independent web” emerged in 1997. As ironic as it may seem, they were already witnessing problems with big companies, data tracking and abusive advertisements. The same web that we all (me included!) see through rose-coloured glasses in the ripe year of 2026, almost 30 years later.

This definition matches Prismatic Pink‘s values since the very beginning: I started this blog (initially as a WordPress blog, then I branched out into different subdomains) because I wanted to post my own content without being restricted by other platforms. For that reason, I bought my own domain and asked my husband to host it for me. At that time, I didn’t even know about Neocities or Nekoweb. When I found these hosts, I was immediately in awe of the variety of websites hoarding pixel graphics and exploring HTML and CSS to their full potential.

However, it did not take me long to notice that most interactions only happened on people’s Neocities profiles. Comments were only made on the Neocities feed activity, while Guestbooks were left empty. People would refer to other websites as “following” or “followers”. Some people don’t have a Links page, but a “Neocities button wall”. Some even treat Neocities or Nekoweb like social media, saying things like “I like your Neocities” or “I’ll make a Neocities” instead of “I like your website or “I’ll make a website”. Even my site gets comments like this, even though I have never hosted anything on Neocities. I’ve seen people saying “they want to make a Neocities, but they would also want interactions from the Nekoweb community”, completely unaware of the fact that these sites are only web hosts. They are literally meant to host your website, nothing more than that. The connections you make are completely dependent on your attitude, whether commenting on people’s Guestbooks or sending them emails.

I understand this is a consequence of the younger audience of these hosts, and I want to be clear that I completely disapprove of hostility or “gatekeeping attitude” towards them. I myself was an annoying child when I started my first website. While I, as an adult, prefer not to interact with children, I do think they have the right to be “cringe and free”, just like I did decades ago. On the other hand, “social media mentality” is not exclusive to minors, I’ve seen a lot of people in their early to mid-20s (some even older!) doing the same thing. This is not their fault, we’ve all been brainwashed into believing the internet belongs to big companies and we’re merely passive observers. That’s why movements like IndieWeb.org are so important.

Back in the day, the biggest dramas in our community revolved around stealing someone’s graphics or code without permission. No one would be harassed on mere assumptions of their political views or support towards certain groups. Linking to other websites just meant you liked some of the things they posted, it was not seen as a full endorsement of their views. I’m not naive, I know the world is deeply polarised now, and this will inevitably reflect on our online spaces as well. It just makes me sad (sometimes a bit angry, not gonna lie) that the ones who claim to be “against social media” are the same ones perpetuating hatred and exclusion just because they don’t like what they see on other websites. I do not condone hate speech or harassment towards any minority or social group, but I also do not believe in censoring debates if there is respect involved.

Thinking about that, I made a webring for websites that are constantly left out simply because they chose a different host. If my thoughts resonate with you, please consider joining the Off-Platform Webring.


Spring Thoughts #2: Cherry Blossoms, Dublin Coffee Festival, etc

Here we go again! This is a direct reference to my previous Spring Thoughts post about mental health improvement and my educational journey. This time I’ll talk about the things I have been doing during my favourite season ever.

Going easy on myself

Looking in retrospect, the best thing I did for my mental health was avoiding social events that made me anxious or hypervigilant. Some are easier to avoid, like family gatherings, but even as a person living abroad, I had to set some boundaries. Some are nearly impossible, especially if we’re talking about the bus or Red Line Luas (IYKYK…). It honestly pisses me off how this country has normalised teens with antisocial behaviour harassing others, people will witness everything and won’t do anything to stop them. Realistically speaking, the biggest improvement to my mental health at this point would be moving to a nicer neighbourhood, but then we have this problem all over Europe called ✨housing crisis✨.

Academic journey

I was worried about getting my Master’s last year, and now I am already thinking about PhD applications. Time certainly flies! Unfortunately, I could not adapt myself to the 1-year full-time Master’s programme, so I had to switch to a part-time programme that takes the usual 2 years. I am honestly not worried about needing an extra year to complete everything, especially because I don’t believe it is possible to write a good thesis in 4 months. Sadly, I won’t graduate with my colleagues, but I had to make this choice for my mental health.

Cherry blossom season

I swear I cried last year when I saw cherry blossoms for the first time. It might sound too silly to some, especially because in Brasilia we have ipês that are as gorgeous as the cherry blossoms, but that was a silly dream come true.

One of our favourite yearly events is the Dublin Coffee Festival. It was a bit more crowded this year, which triggered my anxiety a bit, but it was still fun! Even though this picture in the middle says “all you need is matcha”, this was actually an ube-flavoured drink by a company called Matcha Ninja. I’ve also had the ube matcha and the ube iced coffee at Starbucks (picture shows the day I got matcha), but those were way too sweet for me. Matcha Ninja wins!

Food trends and claddagh ring

As a matcha lover ~before it was cool~, I heard the newest trends will be hojicha and ube. Ube was nice, kinda reminds me of taro (I love taro bubble tea, btw). Nothing amazing, though.

Omma is another matcha brand I’ve tried here that is more on the ~bougie side~. Definitely not something I would be able to afford on a daily basis lol, but my husband kindly gifted me their traditional matcha and I drink it on special occasions. I bought their hojicha powder AND the hojicha chocolate at the coffee festival (who goes to a coffee festival and only drinks tea? Me, of course!).

My wedding ring is too loose and I didn’t want to risk losing it, so I’m temporarily wearing a claddagh ring instead! I say temporarily because it’s a silver one and I was too attached to my gold ring: in Brazilian culture, wedding rings are traditionally yellow gold. If you wear silver or even white gold, some people might not perceive it as a “wedding ring”… But that’s just my mind not wanting to let these traditions go lol. I think these traditions are fun because they let us know more about someone. For example, in some countries in Eastern Europe, their wedding ring actually goes on the right hand (similar to when Brazilians are engaged), so whenever I see someone wearing their ring like this, I immediately know they’re Eastern European.

Claddagh rings are an Irish tradition and I love how simple they are (Pics stolen from WikiHow to illustrate it better haha).

If you are single, you wear them on your right hand with the heart facing outwards (it basically means you are “open to love”). Then, if you are in a relationship, you wear the same ring on the same hand with the heart facing inwards to show you’re taken. Then, if you’re engaged, you move the ring to your left hand with the heart facing outwards to show you have found someone but you’re not married yet. During the wedding ceremony, it is finally reversed to indicate you are fully committed.

I love writing posts like this, but unfortunately it means I have to leave my house and touch grass in order to have nice things to post about lolol. I hope you all liked it! See you xx


I’m alive

Hi folks. Just writing this post to say that this blog is still alive and running. I haven’t had much energy to write posts because life is getting in the way, but also, someone hacked my blog recently and I lost access to it. Thankfully, I have gotten my access back, but unfortunately haven’t gotten back the energy to write anything after all this hassle.

I would like to thank everyone for the sweet comments you have been leaving on my previous posts, especially my immigrant rant. I truly appreciate it.

Love,
Sakkie


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